Estate planning can be a difficult topic, especially when your parents won’t communicate about it. This situation often leaves one child, usually the oldest, to take on the role of managing the estate with little information. This Next Avenue article outlines many of the possible difficulties for children of parents who won’t address the hard questions or details of estate planning.

This is a surprisingly common issue. Parents often avoid estate planning conversations out of discomfort or a desire not to burden their children. However, this can lead to confusion, family disputes, and costly legal battles when the time comes to carry out their wishes.

If you’re in a similar situation, here are some steps you can take to work through it together:

1. Approach with Empathy: Understand that your parents might be uncomfortable discussing their end-of-life plans. Be patient and explain how planning now can prevent confusion later.
2. Emphasize the Importance: Explain that estate planning is about more than just inheritance; it ensures their wishes are honored and reduces stress for everyone involved.
3. Consult an Attorney: If your parents continue to resist, suggest consulting an estate planning lawyer to help create the necessary documents, like a will, powers of attorney, and trusts.
4. Involve Your Siblings: If possible, get your siblings involved to make it a family effort. Clear communication now can prevent disagreements down the road.
5. Update Your Own Documents: Take this opportunity to review your own estate planning documents to ensure they align with your wishes.

At Rhodes Law Firm, we specialize in estate planning and can guide you through the process. Don’t wait – taking action now ensures your family is prepared for the future. Contact us today to learn more.